Growing up, our small family of three would gather nightly around the dinner table, breaking bread together and sharing our days. My job was to set the table—napkin and fork to the left of the dinner plate, knife and spoon to the right. This small act held more meaning than I knew then.
Today, the symbolism of a prepared table remains deeply significant to me. Though hospitality has never felt natural, I feel called to connect with others, letting them know that a place has been set just for them.
I see them, I hear them, and I recognize the divine within them.
These conversations, often shared around my kitchen table, flow naturally from recent happenings to life stories. Sometimes, words bubble up before my guest even closes the car door.
They know there is no judgment here, only love.
But I cannot offer to others what I do not first possess. I must extend this same hospitality to myself.
This space, filled with sincere connection and the desire to be present, begins with a connection to the Divine. Recognizing and honoring the Divine within, becoming comfortable in my own presence, and learning to be with myself—this, I’ve come to understand, is a profound act of hospitality.
Like so many important things, this is simple but not easy.
Years ago, a class at the Center for Contemplative Living introduced me to a prayer that reflects this idea of self-hospitality—the Welcoming Prayer. This prayer, structured in three movements, taught me how to “prepare the table” within.
- First, feel and sink into whatever experience you’re having in your body at this moment.
- Next, welcome the experience as an opportunity to connect with the Divine.
- Finally, let go by saying, “I let go of my desire for security, affection, and control, and I embrace this moment as it is.”
Welcome, welcome, welcome.
This prayer reminds us that the Divine is found in the present moment.
A table set for two.
Right here, right now.
It’s healing, empowering, and renewing—a spa for the soul.
Listening with care, forgiving with gentleness, and honoring my own worth sets the table for me to become who I was created to be: a loving being in whom the spark of Divine life can shine, drawing others to the table.
For whom is your table set?
From my heart to yours
Until next time
Raechal!
This is beautiful! I love the idea of sitting down and envisioning a conversation with Jesus. Your writing is so expressive and I can easily picture exactly what you are saying. Thank you, Raechal.
Thank you so much! Your kind words mean so much to me. I love that you connected with the imagery—it’s such a beautiful practice to sit with Jesus in that way. I’m grateful to have you here!